Now I come to the second book I bought from the library sale (please read the last two posts if you are new to this). This was the ‘Healing power of the mind’ by Tulku Thondup (a Tibetan Buddhist monk). I would like to share from this book, the most powerful visualisation and relaxation exercise I have done.
This is about nothingness and imagining that you are slowly dissolving into air and your surroundings- expanding to become part of it. Most mindfulness exercises ask you to become mindful of your body, thoughts and actions.- you are asked to ‘look’ at your body, feelings or actions and consider them lightly, letting them go. With this ‘nothingness’ exercise you let go of everything. It is very difficult to achieve at first but becomes easier and easier, achieving this state easily. Perhaps this is what drugs to you I thought but without the harmful effects. The first time I did it, it was not easy. However, with time, melting into my surroundings has become easier for me. I felt relaxed with the heaviness of life gone- I felt like air and light.
Thondup also talks about not ‘grasping’ state of mind. A lot of worry and stress come from grasping- people, power, position, fame etc. By doing this exercise of dissolving, it is the opposite of grasping. I have this photo of snow drops and other spring flowers which disappear after the spring, only to arrive beautiful and rejuvenated with life next spring. We also do a similar thing during sleep, perhaps even during death. So doing this while alive can also have a rejuvenating effect.
Try it and let me know if it works for you!