All our lives, we make decisions. Yesterday, I was so tired and yet I was trying to push myself to go to another social outing in the evening. In the end, my brain and body both refused and fortunately I decided to listen to them. Although I still feel tired from the week’s work and I slept for 11 hours, I shudder to think what would have happened if I had gone out last night. I had been saved from my own stupidity! Social outings apart, we still need to make many big or small decisions every day. So here are my tips-
1. Listen to yourself – Some one mentioned ‘instinctive intelligence’ to me the other day and it instantly triggered something in me. So many times, we ignore the voices in our body (and I don’t mean the voices in our head) that are telling us that something is wrong and that we should do something. So yesterday’s not going out was a form of ‘instinctive intelligence’.
2. Do not hurry but do not tarry– Set a time for yourself unto which you need to decide. I recently had to replace my 8 year old computer. I did all the research into the best computer for my use, what the best prices were, where to buy it and who could give me a hand getting it from the shop to my home and then waited until my savings were there. Then I just bought it- no more thinking. There are no check boxes in life!
3. Think about the impact– your decision will have an impact upon your life. What sort of impact do you want it to have? What difference do you want to make to your life? Try to visualise the end result and then take the steps towards it.