At one of the train stations I use, one of men working there has been putting up inspirational quotes every day on the notice board. The quote today was particularly apt for women who want to change themselves in order to attract a partner. This quote from Wilson Kanadi, a modern ‘twitterer’, said- “You might not think that you are not worthy. But I guarantee you that there is someone out there who thinks you are.” To which I have added another one from Wilson Kanadi- “If you have choices, choose the best. If you have no choice, do the best.” Many times we, particularly women settle for the second best, thinking that nothing good will happen or who would want me, etc. Those negative thoughts have these exact outcomes as ’cause and effect’, i.e. we meet potential partners and nothing good happens or we don’t even meet them. So I am trying to positive from now on, keeping those thoughts in mind constantly.